Monday, April 28, 2008

Life's Formula

Assume wala.
Expect konti.
Do dami.
Smile todo.
Laugh Sagad.
Once in awyle, iyak konti
Most of all, DASAL always.
Have a happy Buhay!!!

Sunday, April 20, 2008

An Onion

They say when your hurt you tend to fight back...have revenge..but some may just choose to be in silent and wears a smile on the face but the heart weeps.

Jealousy is the hate most feeling. You are threatened that the other person would steal your partner away.

The true feeling underneath jealousy is usually fear--that your beloved will leave you for another person. And fear is usually uncomfortable, if not down right painful and hurt.

Jealousy is a result of an overactive imagination, and is further fuelled by insecurity that a person might be afflicted with. When this imagination and insecurity coincide, what takes place are ugly scenes, in the mind of the person who is jealous. A simple action or word spoken by your partner can take on epic proportions, as you play out scenes of infidelity over and over in your mind.

The unwise will put his or her partner in the position of making a choice between the friend and the partner. The wise will resist putting his or her partner in that position and will continue to struggle with the issue and one thing is for sure, what you desire, more than anything, is to feel secure inside your romantic relationship.

Life is also fuller and healthier when our intimate partners are not only confident of our love but also experience that confidence from within.

When you are suffering from jealousy, you need to know that you belong to your partner and your partner belongs to you.

You are working to heal your jealousy, let your partner know you expect your process to be respected and your feelings to be cherished. You are not asking him or her to let go of the friendship. She or he needs to respect the ways the friendship impinges on your life by setting good boundaries with him or her friends and family.

Saturday, April 19, 2008

A Cherish

People come and go as what others say and I despise this. Events may pass by and tend to forget it as time goes. Life is tough. It never stops if you have no intention of stopping it. But God is most powerful, if He decides its your time and let time be yours...

Think about it...just some thoughts to ponder. Love is here because God is here. We all live and love because of God's love spreading all over everyones heart. Its a wonderful feeling... loving and being love. You don't need to expect love in return because in time it will be paid with so much love you had never expected to be more.

Life is a momentum. We relate our future to the present. Our present from our past. We learned from our past and thats what we are now of today. Experiences our the greatest lessons we've learned. We failed, dropped out or left but by then we had move on and keep learning until we survive. We pass and become better person, more strong and dignified.

People wanted all from materials to abstract to spiritual. I have treasures kept within that I don't want others to get it from me. Treasuring a love one, a friend or family is the greatest and the best treasure you'll ever had. And you can say your life can be complete, for without them I could say I'm useless..I'm worthless... So I do things and make sacrifices inorder they won't leave or be taken. And I take care of them, love them..grab the chance when they are still there at your side. Against all odds, I can always say thank you very much and be thanking you forever for being there for me despite of unsatisfactory and unfavorable nature I have.

Talking about love and treasury. Loving someone in your life is a mission you had just accomplished and wanted to treasure it like living in a new paradise. For love seeks no boundaries, we can be happy, it maybe you against the many or the world but you can't fool yourself when it comes to your feelings. Being true is setting yourself free. Acceptance is an eccentric feeling everyone wants to savor. So live life to the fullest. Love and do the best.

Tuesday, April 01, 2008

April Fool's Day

April Fool's Day or All Fool's Day occurs annually on April 1. The day is generally observed by playing a practical joke on a "victim" who soon becomes known as an April Fool. This custom is thought to have started in France during the 16th century but the British are credited with bringing it to the United States.

The commonly accepted origin of April Fool's Day involves changes in the calendar. At one time, the New Year celebration began on March 25 and ended on April 1. However, in 1582, King Charles IX adopted the Gregorian calendar and accepted the beginning of the new year as January 1. Those who refused to acknowledge the new date or simply forgot received foolish gifts and invitations to nonexistent parties. The butt of such a prank was known as a "poisson d'avril" or "April fish."